Best Kept Secrets of the OR #24- There is always one

This can apply to many, many things.

There is always that one surgeon who demands perfection, except from the people they like. The one who tirades and demands and threatens but only if you are not their chosen ones. You know, the ones who flatter the surgeon and know which side their bread is buttered on. And then use that access and favoritism to get what they want.

There is always that one team member who rides the clock like it is their business. These are the ones who go home late “because they were doing X”. Even though no one asked them to do X and another person had been assigned to X but the first person perhaps overrode the second person who gladly gave up X. Go home means go home.

There is always the one surgeon who asks for something that they’ve used for twenty years that only came out two years ago. Reacting and dealing with the insanity of this is what keeps us young.

There is always that case that looks like it will run over and that makes you sweat bullets and frantically plan to get the team out on time. You end up calling the call team in only for the case to finish 15 minutes before the end of shift. And now you have the call team there and nothing for them to do.

There is always the one team member that drives you incandescent with rage. That’s it, that’s the end of this instance. There isn’t anything to do about that one team member. We all have our trials. If it makes you feel better you are that team member for someone else.

There is always the one policy that infuriates the department. Until you realize why the policy was created. Hint, it usually has to do with safety, both staff and patient.

There is always the team member who works in the background, quietly. They are not the squeaky ones and they don’t cause the drama. These are the ones that should be cultivated and celebrated. Be aware they may not enjoy much being made of them.

There is always that one patient who you always remember, long after they are gone. It is memories like this that keep you in nursing.